As I see it the problem that the law is trying to address is that other people don't accept that previous decision. If we lived in a different universe where past follies were not disparaged to the extent that they hugely affect future prospects then such a law would not be necessary.
Sorry my English is not so good so i don't know what you mean with the second part.
The idea of the law is good just not how it is now. I my eyes the law should be she give back the money and Totem remove every trace of her including giving back the credit to all customers that has her cards and remove it from the there collection. that way it is fair for the girl, Totem and custormers.
Like I mention before I can and will accept that. I know things change and i wil not blame someone today what he/she said/done a couple years ago as times change.
We should always remember that most girls that get into this business are about 18-20 years of age when they make the "big decision". It would be very harsh from us and others to say to them that "you made the decision for the rest of your life, now live with it." At that age anyone of us can make decisions that are not thoroughly thought out.
Yes I agree but they do driver cars and drinking ***** that can leads to serious problems for other people. Should we not rise the age for that as well then?
I had a friend who is ***** by a 18 year old driver that made the dicision to drive throu the red light for fun. His life is over as he has to life with it. I know differend situation but every one makes desicion there hole life that they will regret later.
I think that definitely should be done upon request.
Yes it should and good for Totem for doing. But they are the biggest loser in this. They pay the girl but did not get it back and have to give back the credit when ask. It does not look fair to me.
Having to take care of one's own backups is not really too much to ask for their peace of mind.
I have 3 back-ups for her cards but i'm still thinking about what to do. I realy like/enjoy her cards but it feels wrong to watch when I know that she don't want to. I'm not a heartless persoon.