To address issue of the URL, personally, I think "gay" is appropriate enough, even though straight and bi women use it. The later cards contain full blown sex scenes after all, and they are all between two men.
The problem is that VirtuaGuy did not make money, it was actually a loss making venture for Totem, even after repeated attempts to revive it. That meant bring in a number of high profile gay individuals.
Secondly, the VirtuaGuy community was a fairly feral crowd with little respect for the T & C's of the forum.
A good female friend of mine tried to moderate there and was driven off, we tried to encourage gay members to moderate and one such person resigned as moderator after a while and yes I did support him, even though I am not gay.
Finally, just a little pointer, your avatar is a 100% breach of the T & C's of the community and if you were a regular poster in VirtuaGirls, DeskBabes or iStripper, it would have been hidden long ago. The fact that you have it still is a result of the moderaters, to some extent gave up on trying to bring some semblance of order to the VirtuaGuy forum
Are you addressing me, Cartef? I don't THINK you are, but I just want to double check. lol
CyberVixen has been a friend to me as well and I was always on her's and Totem's side in the VirtuaGuy forums. I even bought VirtuaGuy cards that I never wanted and never use because still wanted to contribute to supporting VirtuaGuy (and thus Totem for as long as they kept updating VirtuaGuy).
I seem to have memories of you being pretty helpful and friendly to me in the past in the forums, so I am pretty sure you weren't addressing me :D