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etinarcadiaego
Mitglied seit in May 2018
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What's up with the femdom flavor text? Is this actually your fantasy?

Alles über iStripper
15. September 2021, 7 antworten
I have a question for fans of iStripper: do you mostly fantasize about submitting to the girls on your screen? No judgment, just genuinely curious.

I'm asking because Totem frames (with the card text) almost all their BDSM cards as femdom, even though this entire platform reads to me as an epic exercise in maledom harem fantasy (that's certainly why I'm on it). And statistically speaking, the majority of men are not sub. And most of the BDSM cards that have femdom flavor text from Totem are, in fact, the performer role-playing as a sub. There some notably great femdom/JOI-type solos, switch-hitting duos, and true femdom duos of course. But these are really few and far between.

Now, I get why Hollywood prefers dominatrixes for their BDSM-related content, because it lets them seem both edgy and sex positive without having to deal with the complexities of genuine, consensual femsub in the Me Too era.

But this is iStripper, folks... can't we be honest with ourselves about why most of the guys on this platform are here?

Or is iStripper really a hotbed of guys with femdom/female worship fantasies? I do see this sentiment disproportionally reflected in the card reviews, but I've always assumed the femsub fans are just keeping quite about that. (Again, no judgment either way. I can get into powerful women and female power fantasies.)

I think this is important because to do femsub BDSM content properly, Totem and their directors need to be willing to go there, attitude wise. I find it a bit irritating that Totem teases BDSM content more and more often, but seems not to know how to deliver on that promise - both generally (like props that are impractical for solo shows and get thrown behind the table almost immediately), and also to what I think is their core audience preference (femsub). This can't be driven primarily by performers, since a substantial % of performers deliver overtly submissive performances whether or not they're doing a BDSM-themed card, and a lot of the porn industry pros do almost exclusively maledom content outside of iStripper.

A corollary to this is: don't do BDSM-themed cards with performers who are unfamiliar and/or uncomfortable with the genre. But "focus on your performer's strengths" is just good advice over all.

Maybe if we speak up about our preferences, Totem will improve its artistic range going forward.